Thursday, January 15, 2009

so what did you say ?

today a friend of mine told me an interesting story of how a person act after breaking up in their relationship. And so i thought, well...let's say it doesn't matter whois at fault for breaking up, what are the norms that people would react towards their ex's ?

there are people who miraculously just don't care or pretend that they don't know their ex's, wait..i'll call them oldvege for easier to read. It's like, they try to think they're not related, doesnt' matter, all kind of nonsense that can keep them far away from their thoughts of once related with their oldvege. But in the end of the day, who are you kidding anyway ?

Sometimes i really wonder, how hard is it just to forgive and forget after a few days, weeks or even months sulking over the small reason of yours, you might get dump and hate that person, or...you dump a person and you still hate him/her, so what's the point here ? You're still moving on with your life anyway, why would someone be so negative over small thing, and instead of having a solution, they try to avoid it instead ? C'mon people, you can't avoid all these thing all the while, like ma like lor, love ma love lor, fail ma fail lor, shy ma shy lor, how hard is it to admit your own true feelings anyway ?


And so i say, if you wanna pick up a gun, make sure you're ready to face the consequences when you're holding it, and while you threw it away. And it's true that people say, you get together when you felt like it, loved. But when it get messy, you start to doubt. People, peoples....

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