The story:
"A married couple;a working husband;a typical housewife. Living happily together, tho their daily routine would be the same everyday. Everymorning, they might have breakfast before the husband goes to work. The next time they both see eachother would be, the night..when the husband came back from work. And so, they had dinner, spend the rest of the time..till the next morning. And this might last through few years..10, 20..or maybe 30+ years."
What amaze me was, being apart for so many hours almost everyday, and still be able to last till so many years. Easy as it sound..but you never know how the wife/husband feel each minute passes everyday, not to mention when it's hours, last for years. Love can be so strong, till they'll endure those feelings..just to see their love one during night, and parted early in the morning.
I think, nowadays i get to feel how is it like, waiting for hours, just to see her online.
"Back to the story, But..what if, one day....the wife found out that the husband..has been seeing another gurl between their parting time. I wonder, how would the wife feels. Same thing goes to the guys, who found out the wife, seeing another guy when he's out."
Those feelings..might reflect on how i felt, the difference is; i'm not married..and, i'm living on..with that feelings with me. Sometimes i really wonder, how does one differentiate between fair..or not fair.
"And so, the stories goes on. If that married couple really care and love each other, if they still remmeber their commitment..they might just dump the person they seeing, for the sake of their current love ones. But, what if one's decided to follow another person ? "
They might think: He/she might step down the stage, and continue letting it be..since..maybe the person they going out with now, more capable than themself, where...they just wish nothing for happiness. Well, this is one kind of love that all of us dream of, but..never wish for.
And another choice, they might goes in a big fight, where 2 possibilites result might occur..they get back together..but they might not be as bond to each other as before. And another result..simply put..they divorce.
People might think, if love is so easily being shaken of, then what is the real love ? If you ask a kid what is love, you might get the answer, "I love my daddy, that is love". Well, if you ask a teen about it, they might say "I love him/her cause i cant live without him/her". And if you ask an adult, you might get an answer like "Love is someone you care of most, i love them simply because i want them to be happy".
It's just a not very constructive teory i'd said there, but..what if, you found someone you cant live without with, gazing out the window just thinking of them everynight, and simply wants them get their own happiness ?
Back to the story..alright..if one of them let go their love one, just thinking of their happiness..then what happen to the person who let go ? The answer for their love is to see their love one happy, being together with other person ?
I often thought, happiness, always coup with sadness..at first, i never really wanna believe that..but now..zzz
Sometimes people often wonder, what is fair...cause..for what i've seen through this years, alone..observing people..nothing, is always fair. I guess, that's how people live on. Does that means people have to live on with that saddening facts ?
With so much confusing feelings within me...i guess, no one can help it. Life, might be not fair..but, people can TRY to be fair..i wanted to be fair, not to myself..but at least to the people around me..that would be enough for me.
Well, it might be just because of time..that wouldn't let me forget all these feelings now; i guess i'll accept it, as my sin.
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