Monday, September 15, 2008

What are friends for ?

There are times you find your friends when you're down, bored, need someone to talk with, need people to play with and etc etc etc. But, what do you do with them when you're pre-occupied with your own stuff or work ?

There are, alot of times where we un-intentionally abandon our friends, where out of sudden we do not talk to them anymore, find or even talk to them from times to times, wait...that should be normal when we're walking on a working path, where everyone split up, especially for those who go oversea. I think, both parties are also important to keep a friendship last.

There are quite alot of people who takes their friends for granted, most of these people are "conditional friends", where..they find you when they need you, they dump you aside when they don't.

Anyway, friends who keep their own sadness, or happiness..to themself, are the worst one. I tend to get lonely all the time, when i know my friends were having trouble, when im not be able to do anything, when, they decided not to tell me, and when i know the solutions. Im like, why do you wanna keep all to yourself, when your friends are just beside you to help ? i really wonder, if people like this would care how would people around them would feel.

If you're to think u're very smart to handle things on your own, think you're so strong to just keep quite. Then i think you're the most stupidest person in the world, for making other people around you sad while seeing you like that.

In this world, there are no such things as carrying all the burden alone, there are no such things as you're be able to handle it alone, and of course...there is no way, that you could live on this world alone.

The best-est in life is not about being the wealthiest person in the world, prettiest, smartest or the luckiest. In actual fact, stupidity, responsibility, sereneity and idiocity is the best thing that you should have, to stay on a friendship.

For people whom treasure their friends, please think of their feelings, before you decide anything..or else, what are friends for ?

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